We're not actually having a fight -- my wife prefers the term "parenting stand-off." And we need our readers to help us decide who's right. Lindsay and I have different perspectives on whether our toddler should be required to give hugs, particularly when it comes to bedtime, or saying goodbye, and particularly particularly when it comes to our daughter running screaming from my wife.
Lindsay posted on her blog soliciting feedback. Her post gives a little more detail, but I think mine gives the necessaries for you to make a parenting decision for us. You have so much power. Use it wisely. (Also, pick me.)